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Katrin Silva
Jun 4, 20204 min read
First, Build up Trust
Boomer, a troubled horse who learned to trust. “First, do no harm.” Doctors have to take this oath before they can call themselves...
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Katrin Silva
May 1, 20206 min read
Double-Edged Words
“I saw a stop sign, and it occurred to me that just as no one expects a stop sign to stop a car, I shouldn’t expect words to substitute...
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Katrin Silva
Apr 22, 20204 min read
Why Do I Still Ride?
My beautiful office. Thank goodness I can still go to work. Like most of the world in this surreal spring of 2020, New Mexico is under...
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Katrin Silva
Mar 20, 20203 min read
Why Horses Matter in Strange, Uncertain Times
Yesterday was the kind of warm, sunny day we don’t often get in March here in New Mexico. I spent most of it riding without puffy down...
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Katrin Silva
Feb 22, 20205 min read
Lazy Riders Are Better Riders
Esperanza, a mare who appreciates my efforts to work less. I’ve worked hard all my life. In my early twenties, I spent several years...
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Katrin Silva
Feb 11, 20204 min read
A Good Problem to Have
I’ve built my reputation as a trainer on training horses that are no one’s idea of good dressage prospects. I work with horses who have...
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Katrin Silva
Jan 25, 20205 min read
Taking Care of Ourselves is Taking Care of our Horses
When my back is tense, my horse's back will be, too. When my back is relaxed, my horse's back will be, too. Some time ago, I watched a...
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Katrin Silva
Dec 22, 20194 min read
I See You: Thoughts on Respect
Esperanza, the first time I swing a leg over her back. We are aware of each other, but we're calm. Some horse people don’t make earning...
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Katrin Silva
Dec 12, 20194 min read
Our Horses, Our Life Coaches
Horses have taught me to quiet my mind. Horse enthusiasts use a variety of the English language that diverges from the mainstream...
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Katrin Silva
Oct 30, 20194 min read
The Power of Being Real
Renegade and I, neither of us perfectly positioned, but enjoying each other's company. “Any knowledge that doesn’t lead to new questions...
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Katrin Silva
Sep 15, 20195 min read
The Imperative Trap
"Words are the source of misunderstandings." (Antoine de Saint-Exupéry) Teaching the language of the aids starts from the ground I've...
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Katrin Silva
Sep 4, 20194 min read
Horses and Head Space
I feel lucky to make a living doing what I love. I spend most of my time riding horses, six days a week, most weeks, working with eight...
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Katrin Silva
Jul 27, 20195 min read
Love and Lots of Work: What it Takes to Build a Good Horse-Rider Relationship
When I ask my students what their most important goal is, they will say: “I want to have a good relationship with my horse.” Most of the...
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Katrin Silva
Jul 22, 20194 min read
Finding the Feedback Sweet Spot
We all want to become better riders. Working with a good instructor is an important part of learning how, but it takes more than that....
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Katrin Silva
Mar 20, 20195 min read
Why Show?
I spent last weekend at a horse show in Albuquerque. Three days later, I still feel utterly exhausted. Why? Let me explain: A useful...
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Katrin Silva
Jan 30, 20194 min read
Independence, Not Co-Dependence: The Goals of Teaching
What is a good teacher’s long-term goal? In a nutshell, to become superfluous. Most of us who train horses and riders would love it if...
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Katrin Silva
Jan 1, 20194 min read
The Sensitivity Sweet Spot
Cami, a very thin-skinned mare, figuring out her sweet spot I’ve been called too sensitive all my life. Raised voices make me...
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Katrin Silva
Dec 8, 20184 min read
Love The One You’re With
As a horse trainer, I admit that my chosen career has its share of ethical issues. Horse owners who are having a difficult time with...
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Katrin Silva
Nov 10, 20184 min read
Unlikely Lessons: How Ultra Running Has Made Me a Better Horsewoman
Eight years ago, I started running ultramarathons, i.e. foot races longer than 26.2 miles. I had just turned 40 and was suffering from a...
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Katrin Silva
Oct 3, 20185 min read
Words and Silence: Horse-Rider Conversations
Young Cami, taking her Western dressage test seriously. I think of riding as communication, a dialogue between horse and and human. Just...
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